What is an independent woman?

Today I want to discuss some important points about independent women

What is an independent woman?

Why shouldn't women depend 100% on men?

Is it true that women who can stand alone will have high standards for men?

Independent Woman, the first thing that comes to mind when we hear about "independent woman" is a woman who works hard and doesn't even need a man. The fact is, the choice of the phrase "a woman who doesn't need a man" is totally wrong. Very wrong. God created women to remain in their nature, namely with men as leaders in the household, not women. Independent woman can be interpreted as a woman who has self-confidence and a desire to maximize the values ​​that exist within her. Having the determination to fight for what is the target of life without waiting for someone to make that wishes come true. This is because this woman has faith that her own values ​​will produce good results.

They say if you rely too much on your own abilities, then what is the function of men? Men are given nature to provide, to meet the needs of their partners. However, because of this, some women misunderstand this statement by relying completely on men and not trying to maximize their values

"Why work hard, when you can find successful and classy men to raise your standard of living?"

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First, we as women need to change our mindset.

60% Men or let's say a smart and ambitious person will not like someone who is lazy and always dependent. It takes a person with the same perspective, with the same energy, whose insight is equally broad to be a balance in his life.

Actually this mindset is very common, not only men that want a partner who is a balance but women also want the same thing.

So far, got it?

If asked, what is your value other than good looking? Ok, you are good looking. But your good looking will fade once you enter into an environment of independent people, people full of determination. Who in the environment will discuss, "how is your office work today?" "How far is the vlogger project?" "Oh, how is it, the online business?" "How's your cooking class?"

It is of higher quality and becomes a more proud discussion, compared to discussions that end up just gossip, confusion, beautiful photos, and spending money and energy.

Whatever your job, no matter how small your job, your effort and hard work is worth it. This means that you have an effort to maximize the value that is in yourself.

"Eh Din! Who wants to be unemployed?"

Can I reply with,

"Everyone who doesn't have a job doesn't mean they can't maximize the value that is in them. As long as they are healthy and given time and opportunity from God to fight, why not try?"

In fact, only an insecure person just sits around and waits for someone to fulfill their dreams. Why not be confident? Obviously not confident, because she doesn't believe in herself if she can get what she wants. And depend on other people."

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Keywords: Independent = maximizing the value in yourself. your potential.

No need to be successful first, then you're seen as independent, no need to be the boss first.

An "effort" to "maximize" the "value" that is in "yourself".

This is the point.

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They think that if a woman is too independent, it will be difficult to find a partner because of their high standards.

High in what way?

Only men who has no ambition in  his life who afraid to get closer to women who are trying to improve themselves, afraid to get closer to women who want to learn to rely on themselves, afraid to get closer to women who have the passion to maximize their values ​

What's the fear factor? Because he realized, he did not have the same energy as her woman. The context is not that the woman is more established or has more flying hours than the man.

Establishment, or flight time is not something that is burdensome in the eyes of a man who is confident, a man who has the determination and energy to maximize his value.

Men with ambition and strong determination in life will confidently get closer to women with the same energy as him without fear of feeling insecure. You should know that even independent and a great woman, they still need a man who can be her "home" and her "support system". To find solution, to discuss about her problems.

Men with ambition and women with ambition will become a good partner, like building a team that supports each other to maximize the value in each other.

Not be a rival, where men are afraid of being rivaled by women's achievements or conditions where this independent woman will feel great about her independence, which will create competition between them. This is so wrong i swear.

And in my opinion, men should be proud of independent women and have strong determination. Why?

1. As a man, are you sure that your wheels will always be on top?

2. Can you, as a man, work or live with women who doesn't even understand how to fight?

This is what I meant by "team", when this man at his lowest point, financially collapsing. If a woman is not independent, only rely on her man,what she can do then in that condition?

Independence woman will handle their partners in conditions at their lowest point. With the abilities, with the values s​​he builds. Because if this condition is reversed, men certainly have the same responsibility. That is responsible for personal needs their partner, including her makeup lol yess.

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